crazy/beautiful: May 2011

I hate when I see how people judge the other people by their gender or lack of it. The whole stuff comes down to only one - the organ. Holy crap! I really don't understand it. Is it all about SEX ? Whom to have with ? Doesn't matter the body or face, only the soul. The moment, the touch, the smell. A game with different names. Beautiful, ugly, confused, crazy, people have sex. Nudity is a part of the society but why is it still huffy. Magazines, photoshoots, music videos, they all have one thing to express - SEX itself. It's not only between two humans in their bed or kitchen table, or their clothes. SEX is in their eyes, hands, voices, in their touch on each other. It turns in a way of life. Do we all have the SEX ? Are we afraid of it ? To show it, to have it. Is it illusion that sex is no more outrageous ? We buy it, sell it, steal it, and we love or hate. We need it. Is there any line between genders? Men, women, transgendered they all have it. Kids? Are we kids of a sex guru? We search for ourselves but do we know what are searching for ?
Somebody remember the SEX and the CITY when Carry met the bisexual guy? She was completely confused about him. Then when she went to the party of his friends she lost all of her Carry-Bradshaw-knows-good-sex-and-doesn't-afraid-to-ask. Is it - SEX - only for men and women and an etiquette question? Even when you are sexual confident and open ? Why don't we just take the SEX itself? We see girls who wear not much of clothes, get their tongues out and boys who pull down their panties but when it comes to the opposites we're completely out of mind. They're the wrong-s, the people who are not the etiquette because of their one-gendered relationships. But who are the real opposites? Why is it a sin ? And is it really ? Can you choose your gender? Do we really need an etiquette for everything?